In the middle of Term 2, mid-June, we got another student in the Special Unit who appeared to be about 7 years old. She had never been to school and spoke only her tribal language (no Kiswahili or English). Her big smile and sparkling eyes invited us to like her right away. Because she had no clue about school, Timothy told me to continue taking care of my three students, and he would oversee Simani as she got used to the school environment.
Term 2 ended about 7 weeks later and Simani had shown her true colors. She walked with a swagger, hitting anyone and everyone. She played grab and run just to get attention, and nothing was off-limits: books, pencils, erasers,, anything I was using to teach, even a novel or water bottle from my backpack. I told my kids not to chase her and sure enough, she would come back, even more annoyed. Eventually most things were returned from some part of the school campus. She camped out in other classrooms where she was equally disruptive. When she wandered off campus, my girls went to retrieve her. She screamed, cried, and kicked. Timothy's oversight was almost nil and she learned nothing in Term 2 except how to be a 7 year old tyrant.
She's back. The other classrooms now deliver her back to our room. Even at recess, the older girls return her as they are finished being nice to her. Timothy is not on campus regularly so she runs amok. She stirs up my kids to a point of no return. She hauls off and hits each of them and then runs. Paul picks up the chase through the room and when he catches her, there is hell to pay. She can produce blood-curdling screams and tears on a moment's notice; Paul is under the tables, over the chairs, and in a corner gloating. It is not the stuff of teaching.
I told Timothy of her escalating frustration, boredom, and aggression. He seemed somewhat surprised and appreciated my concern. Alternatives for Simani were not met with much discussion. Term 3 may turn out to be a course in self-defense for me and mine.
Monday, September 20, 2010
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My sympathies are with you, Rox. I am familiar with such occasional tyrants in the classroom. One of mine went on Maury Povitch's show and told the world she was a prostitute (at 15) and even did business while at school. (Fortunately she was only with us a few weeks after having been expelled elsewhere.) The show had made a deal with her mother to send the girl to a treatment facility but she returned to school and before she got to any classes, she detached the retina of someone who dared to confront her. Sorry to share but at least the good news is that we tend to remember the many more inspiring encounters. Hang on! Love,
ReplyDeleteSusanna
GOOD GRIEF!!!! What an impossible situation! Can she be sent back where she came from or a parent brought to the school? I'm so sorry you have to deal with the "Wild Child." You most certainly have had plenty of challenges during your assignment and have my greatest respect.
ReplyDeleteWe will welcome you back to the travel business.
Love, Pam